Loving someone more than they love you

I have found myself in this position, no it's not a guy. I treasure the blessings Allah has given me, my family, and friends as well. I take the people that are in my life very seriously and I don't hold back to let them know and show them that I love them and I'm grateful to have them in my life. The saying I have in mind is in Arabic but it is somewhere along the lines of :" A true friend is there in the time of hardship". Well, I have realised some of the most dearest people in my life have shown me their true colors, they don't care for me as much a I do for them. OUCH! I know, I haven't been able to fully cope with it or even comprehend it that well yet. How could this be? What do you do? I can't stop loving them but the thought that they don't love me as much is really painful. I would do anything for them but I don't think, actually I know they wouldn't do the same. I'm gonna leave you all with that and have the quotes below do the rest of the talking.

"You have to get hurt. That’s how you learn. The strongest people out there, the ones who laugh the hardest with a genuine smile, those are the people who have fought the toughest battles. Because they’ve decided they’re not going to let anything hold them down, they’re showing the world who’s the boss."

"After a while, you learn that you don’t need anyone else in order to survive. No one is ever going to always be there, no matter what they say or what they promise. You just gotta suck it up, accept it and keep moving on."

"These things happen. What other people say doesn’t change the way you are. Rememberwhat we always say? It’s just part of the journey. Life isn’t about what happens to you, it’s about how you handle what happens."

"Have you ever thought that if one thing hadn’t happened, a whole set of things never would’ve either? Like dominoes, a single event kicked off an unstoppable series of changes that gained momentum and spun out of control, and nothing was ever the same again. Don’t ever doubt that a mere second can change your life forever."

"There is no person in the world who is made to handle every punch that’s thrown at them. we aren’t made that way. in fact, we’re made to get mad, upset, sad, be hurt, stumble and fall. we weren’t supposed to be able to handle everything, but that’s what makes us stronger in the end, by learning from the things that hurt us the most."

"In your life, you meet people. Some you never think about again. Some, you wonder what happened to them. There are some that you wonder if they ever think about you. And then there are some you wish you never had to think about again. But you do."

My favorite one is this :

"In life God doesn’t give you the people you want, instead He gives you the people you need. To teach you, to hurt you, to love you, and make you exactly the way you should be."