Friday, August 26, 2011

How can you stand up to a bully?

Has someone been bullying you for so long you don't know how to get out of it? Do you feel like your in too deep to do anything about it? What step should you take? How should you break free?

This is my dilemma, I don't know the answers to any of these because I am trying to figure it out myself. Do I have the strength? They say things always get worse before it gets better, it's even true with acne medication. The doctors or sales rep. always tell you when you get a new acne medication that bit will get much worse before you starts seeing results, but why? Is it because the bully wants to see if he can scare so you'll give up? The other issue is the consequences that you'll face if the person is in control of anything that is essential in your life, that makes it more risky and complicated. Maybe that's why some countries always play nice and are limited to what they can do with another country that trades good with them, the risk of not is too big. At some point it doesn't matter anymore, you don't care what this person has you've had enough. I don't know if I'm at that point and honestly I don;t think I can handle the consequences of standing up to my bully but I guess it's good to know that everything in it's own time will happen. I pray to Allah in this blessed month that I will be able to make my life less complicated and eliminate people that are doing me more harm than good. Ameen. It always helps me to know that nothing lasts forever :)

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