This is my constant and ongoing struggle: why do people have to leave each other? I remember reading Yasmin Mogahed's article on this a while back and thought it would be a great idea to read it again as a reminder. Alhamdulillah, I must work on this attachment, it's too painful, too unpredictable, and too draining for me to keep going through it again and again. I recommend everyone to read that article and it's part two also. But I'm thinking, now what? How do I detach? How do I change my connection from people to Allah? I don't know what to do first and how to do it but I have started. I decided to determine who am I currently attached to and not contact that person for a month. Kind of like fasting, I'm fasting from some people. I need to detach! I desperately want to detach and Insha'allah I hope I can. If anyone has suggestions on what I should do please share, I would LOVE to heard your thoughts and input on this. Make Dua' that Allah makes this change and transition easier for me, Ameen. I've attached the links below to the articles and Insha'allah it will benefit you as it has benefited me.
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