People change

"Change is never easy. You fight to hold on. You fight to let go."

Today I was standing behind my dad as he was making something while talking to me and I realized something. I realized my dad has changed. I don't know why I just thought of it but I did. I started thinking to myself how my dad isn't the person he was when I was a little girl. True I have changed too, as I am an "Adult" now but still. He looks at things from all angles now and is much more calmer. I know I have changed too, even though it is a bit harder to pinpoint exactly how different I am or how I have grown and matured. I don't like change much and I am not a great adapter but I guess it depends on what's changing; if it's for the better or worse. Sometimes I wish I could just freeze a moment and the people in it so I can enjoy them but it doesn't work that way. I have a hard time letting go of people even when I know it's time to move on.

"Seeing people change isn't what hurts. What hurts is remembering who they used to be."